Messed up big time!!!!

So I F up big time 2009 I started using hair finity vitamins. Cut all the relaxer out my hair was soooo healthy and grew so fast. I was deployed in iraq for that whole year returned to the states and made the biggest mistake in my life....went to the hair dresser got some major highlights (jan 10) stopped taking my vitamins as well back in OCT 09....The color wasnt so bad on my hair but the biggest mistake i made in my life was deciding to put another relaxer in my hair in JUL 10  from that point everything about my healthy good length hair went down hill my hair started breaking of soooooooo bad i continued to get a relaxer and started getting the color trimmed out every month... now the color is gone here it is Feb 2011 and Im going back natrual again no more relaxers for me and i mean it this time.... I started taking my hair finity vitamins again on 1jan2011 last relaxer was DEC 29 2010.....Let the transformation begin!!! uggghhh this is going to be a rough year!! lol